Tuesday, July 14, 2015

From bad news to good news



In 2002 when my family needed a new primary care physician, I went to the Provider Directory and simply looked for a doctor who was close by and accepting new patients.  I found a name wrote it down on my enrollment paperwork and turned it in.  I really knew nothing about this doctor or his practice. However, it didn't take long for me to realize I had made a good decision.  Through  routine checkups and sick kids visits, Dr. M and I started to build our relationship both professionally and personally.  We discovered we had children of similar ages and even attended the same church.   I trusted Dr. M to oversee the care of my family and he never disappointed.

Now fast forward to the early part of July 2014 when I found a lump in my breast.  I knew something wasn't right and needed to see a doctor.  Two days later I was in Dr. M's office and the journey began.  Starting that moment, Dr. M was the one who navigated the early part of my diagnosis.

He made the referral for my diagnostic mammogram.
He told me the radiologist was concerned after my mammogram.
He scheduled my biopsy and on July 15, 2014 called me and my husband into his office to tell me that I had cancer.

Just thinking about that moment, takes my breathe away...it was so surreal.   I really don't remember much about my time in his office that day.   I do recall hearing the word CANCER but also remember the amount of concern Dr. M showed to Christopher and me.   He had done some research prior to meeting with us, talked to a few colleagues and even referred me to an amazing oncologist. 

Throughout my cancer journey, Dr. M has been a constant presence.  I saw his name copied on test results and often heard my specialists mention his name during visits.  Even though he was not my primary doctor over the past year, I knew he was still heavily involved in my care and always had my back.

As you know, I had my final scans on June 11 and was seeing my oncologist on the 12th for the results...I was somewhat at peace but was getting extremely anxious for the news.    Early in our professional relationship, Dr. M learned one thing about me...if a diagnostic test has been performed and the results are available, I want to know what they are ASAP!  Much to my surprise early on the morning of June 12, I received a text from Dr. M.  It simply stated, "It's going to be a good day for you my friend."  His message revealed what I longed to hear...the scans look good...no more cancer! 

It couldn't have been more perfect, the individual who had to give me the bad news, also was able to give me the good news.

Time and time again over the past twelve months, I have seen that God is continuously at work in my life.  This relationship is no exception.  God puts people in your life to support you on the journey He has planned for you...we just have to trust and see His work unfold. 

Thanks, Dr. M!
 
Christina

 
Braver. Smarter. Stronger.

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